I am just a normal girl (woman), I don't feel 45, or know what it is supposed to feel like. I have three great boys,15, 11, 10. I am a happy person who just knows how to make things work out. I strive to be good to the people I know and meet. I try keep the boys happy, while teaching them to be good people too. I don't dwell on any negativity. I have Lupus, and now symptoms of M.S. so I am used to challenges! I am really enjoying SU, there are some really fantastic people I have "met". All y'all let me know if you are around Palm Springs, California! I will have an ice tea, or a hike,or a swim, or help you out with whatever! shennequa